Train Travel with Tots: How to Survive (and Maybe Even Enjoy) the Journey

Most youngsters would probably rank it right up there with broccoli and bedtime at 8 pm. Stuck in a metal tube hurtling through the countryside, staring at the same scenery (or, more likely, the back of your sibling’s head) for hours on end? It’s enough to make even the most patient parent fantasize about a deserted island with unlimited piña coladas (and a bottomless mimosa bar for good measure).

While a train trip with little ones can feel like an episode of Survivor: Parents vs. Whining, it doesn’t have to be a complete disaster. With a little planning, a whole lot of patience (and maybe a flask of emergency mommy juice — no judgment!), and some tried-and-true tricks from a seasoned train traveler (that’s me!), you can actually emerge from the other side relatively sane.

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Train Travel Tips for Babies

These little bundles of joy, bless their tiny socks, are surprisingly adaptable. The rhythmic chug of the train and the constant change of scenery can actually lull them into a blissful sleep, making them the model passengers (cue the smug mommy grin).

However, don’t let that fool you. A diaper blowout in a cramped train bathroom is enough to test the resolve of even the most seasoned traveler.

Packing a diaper bag overflowing with supplies is non-negotiable, along with enough wipes to clean up a biohazard spill (because, trust me, sometimes it feels like that).

Here’s a real-life tip: pack a plastic shopping bag for dirty diapers — it’ll contain the mess and the smell until you can dispose of it properly.

Train Travel Activities for Toddlers and Preschoolers

Now, the real challenge: toddlers and preschoolers. These little energy balls have the attention span of a goldfish and the stamina of an Olympic athlete.

The first hour on the train might be filled with wide-eyed wonder as they watch the world whiz by. But soon, the novelty wears off, and the meltdowns begin. Here’s where the real planning comes in.

Forget packing just one beloved stuffed animal or a single coloring book — variety is key!

Pack a whole arsenal of entertainment, from sticker books and crayons to those little travel games that never seem to lose their appeal (think magnetic doodle boards or those miniature cars with the annoying wheels).

Remember, even a treasured storybook loses its magic after the tenth reading in a row.

Here’s a pro-tip from a veteran train traveler: Wrap a few presents and let your little ones “unwrap” them throughout the journey. A new pack of crayons, a small toy car — these surprises can be lifesavers when boredom and restlessness threaten to take over.

I learned this the hard way on a particularly long journey. My toddler, bless her heart, decided my patience was a chew toy, and nothing short of a brand new sparkly sticker book could distract her.

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And speaking of boredom, if you’re stuck with a long journey during the day, try to plan your trip around naptime. The rhythmic rocking of the train, combined with the general lack of excitement (sorry, kids!), can work wonders in lulling them to sleep. Just be prepared for a burst of pent-up energy once they wake up, so pack accordingly (think park visits or energetic games in the aisles — at your own risk, of course).

Embrace the Chaos, But Be Prepared

The truth is, even the most well-planned train trip with kids might have its moments of chaos. But remember, darlings, it’s all part of the adventure (or should I say misadventure?). Embrace the mess, the meltdowns, and the unexpected singalongs in the aisle.

After all, these are the moments that become hilarious stories down the line, reminding you that you actually survived a train trip with your sanity (mostly) intact. Now, who’s up for some trainspotting?

Here are some bonus tips to help you navigate the journey with even more grace (and maybe a little less spilled juice):

• Snacks are your best friend: Pack a variety of healthy and not-so-healthy snacks to keep little tummies happy. Think apple slices, yogurt pouches, and those goldfish crackers that somehow manage to end up everywhere but in their mouths (but hey, they keep them occupied for a while, right?).
• Bring a refillable water bottle: Train water can be a bit…well, questionable. Save yourself some money and the hassle of buying plastic bottles by packing a reusable water bottle you can refill at stations.
• Befriend the dining car (if available): A change of scenery and a chance to stretch your legs can do wonders for restless little ones. Plus, who doesn’t love a good train meal (even if it’s just chicken nuggets and fries)? Bonus tip: If you’re on a budget, pack some snacks for the train and enjoy a picnic lunch at your seat. Many trains offer scenic overlooks or dining cars with large windows, turning lunch into a mini sightseeing adventure.

Pack light and smart. Here are some essentials to ensure a smooth journey:

• A backpack for each child: Filled with their favorite travel toys, snacks, and a water bottle, this gives them a sense of ownership and keeps them entertained.
• A change of clothes (or two) for everyone: Spills, blowouts, and unexpected weather changes happen. Be prepared!
• A small first-aid kit: For minor scrapes, bumps, or headaches.
• Ziplock bags: Endless uses — from storing dirty clothes to containing leaky snacks.

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Train travel with kids can be an adventure, filled with unexpected moments and bonding experiences. So, take a deep breath, pack your patience (and maybe a flask of emergency mommy juice!), and get ready to make some memories that will last a lifetime.

After all, the destination isn’t just the final stop, it’s the entire journey itself. Happy travels!